Deangelo author of double your dating
Deangelo author of double your dating - Visio sex
In my case, a few years back I realized that “Future Me” (that guy who’s finally successful with women) would need a more easygoing attitude and to be more comfortable in his own skin.He’d need to be more willing to take risks, and to say and do things outside of his “comfort zone.” Above all, he’d need a better sense of humor.
Sounds deceptively simple, but try it…close your eyes and imagine how the version of “you” who’s successful with women be different than the “you” that exists today.That in mind, here come three quick, emergency measures you can take right now to begin your escape from crippling self-doubt and insecurity — and to start building the right attitude for dating success. USE YOUR IMAGINATIONThe fastest way to start repairing a negative “inner game” attitude is simply to imagine your life without it.In other words, guys who turn things around begin by envisioning the kind of life they’d like to lead…I've dated models, I've dated actresses, and I've dated nice, normal, regular girls as well. But the REALLY GREAT news is that I now publish a free email newsletter three times a week that teaches any guy how to increase his success with women DRAMATICALLY. It's free, there's no obligation, I'll never share your email address with anyone, and you can easily remove yourself anytime with no hassles (and no, I'll never pull any of these tricks where I send you a bunch of unwanted junk email when you try to remove yourself). In addition to my free email newsletter, I also have a killer downloadable e Book that you can download right now and be reading in literally MINUTES from right now.It's JAM PACKED with dozens and dozens of specific strategies for overcoming fear, approaching women, getting phone numbers and email address from women quickly, great inexpensive or even free date ideas, and how to take things to a "physical" level smoothly and easily.Make a commitment to start talking positively to yourself ASAP, even if (at first) you don’t believe what you’re telling yourself! This step is about TAKING ACTION to create NEW RESULTS…results which will begin to show themselves in your dating success and your life in general.
Here’s what to do: Take out that i Pad of yours (or a good old piece of paper?Once I imagined this version of myself, the “steps” to get there became clearer to me. LEARN HOW TO “TALK TO YOURSELF”There’s an area of psychology commonly called ‘internal dialogue’ or ‘self talk.’ Simply put, it’s the way you sound inside your own head.And they will for you, too…but again, that’s for LATER. Men whose “inner game” is crippled by fear, shyness, doubt, and insecurity spend a majority of the time talking NEGATIVELY to themselves instead of POSITIVELY.What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like... If you're like me, then you've had it happen a LOT. That's right, I said that women see this as MANIPULATION. Most men don't realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one way or another ALL THE TIME. YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman just because you aren't rich, tall, or handsome.Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they "feel" too early on. An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who are interested. Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman. But for example, if you're out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it.This translate into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month. Earlier I mentioned that it's a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission. Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language. And if you don't know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won't help!